You can either have a bonner killing trigger, like thinking about something sad, or be ready and hard after that first load, to me sexy feet to the face, and i will literally get soft and grow hard inside a hole, to some a cock ring or some other stimulation, fing your triggers, the good ones and the "bad ones"
I'm surprised you're the only one to say that! Not many female comments here, but I was thinking it must be flattering, and yes, empowering, to a woman, if her pussy makes a guy spurt that fast!